i will be going off to South Africa tonight!
YAYYYY~~~!
byebye..
see u again in 10 days time..
~huggies~
Thursday, December 14, 2006
Sunday, November 26, 2006
DID I MARRY THE RIGHT PERSON?
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,"How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind. Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.
Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.
During one of our seminars, a woman asked a common question. She said,"How do I know if I married the right person?"
I noticed that there was a large man sitting next to her so I said, "It depends. Is that your husband?" In all seriousness, she answered "How do you know?"
Let me answer this question because the chances are good that it's weighing on your mind. Here's the answer.
EVERY relationship has a cycle. In the beginning, you fell in love with your spouse. You anticipated their call, wanted their touch, and liked their idiosyncrasies.
Falling in love with your spouse wasn't hard. In fact, it was a completely natural and spontaneous experience.
You didn't have to DO anything. That's why it's called "falling" in love...Because it's happening TO YOU.
People in love sometimes say, "I was swept of my feet." Think about the imagery of that expression. It implies that you were just standing there; doing nothing, and then something came along and happened TO YOU.
Falling in love is easy. It's a passive and spontaneous experience. But after a few years of marriage, the euphoria of love fades. It's the natural cycle of EVERY relationship. Slowly but surely, phone calls become a bother (if they come at all), touch is not always welcome (when it happens), and your spouse's idiosyncrasies, instead of being cute, drive you nuts.
The symptoms of this stage vary with every relationship, but if you think about your marriage, you will notice a dramatic difference between the initial stage when you were in love and a much duller or even angry subsequent stage.
At this point, you and/or your spouse might start asking, "Did I marry the right person?" And as you and your spouse reflect on the euphoria of the love you once had, you may begin to desire that experience with someone else. This is when marriages breakdown. People blame their spouse for their unhappiness and look outside their marriage for fulfillment.
Extramarital fulfillment comes in all shapes and sizes. Infidelity is the most obvious. But sometimes people turn to work, church, a hobby, a friendship, excessive TV, or abusive substances. But the answer to this dilemma does NOT lie outside your marriage.
It lies within it. I'm not saying that you couldn't fall in love with someone else. You could. And TEMPORARILY you'd feel better. But you'd be in the same situation a few years later. Because (listen carefully to this):
THE KEY TO SUCCEEDING IN MARRIAGE IS NOT FINDING THE RIGHT PERSON; IT'S LEARNING TO LOVE THE PERSON YOU FOUND.
SUSTAINING love is not a passive or spontaneous experience. It'll NEVER just happen to you. You can't "find" LASTING love. You have to "make" it day in and day out. That's why we have the expression "the labor of love."
Because it takes time, effort, and energy. And most importantly, it takes WISDOM. You have to know WHAT TO DO to make your marriage work.
Make no mistake about it. Love is NOT a mystery. There are specific things you can do (with or without your spouse) to succeed with your marriage.
Just as there are physical laws of the universe (such as gravity), there are also laws for relationships. Just as the right diet and exercise program makes you physically stronger, certain habits in your relationship WILL make your marriage stronger. It's a direct cause and effect. If you know and apply the laws, the results are predictable... you can "make" love.
Love in marriage is indeed a "decision"... Not just a feeling.
Thursday, November 16, 2006
10D Classic South Africa
Itinerary
DAY 1: SINGAPORE - CAPE TOWN
Assemble at Singapore Changi International Airport for your flight to Cape Town via Johannesburg.
( meals on board )
DAY 2: CAPE TOWN CITY TOUR / OSTRICH RANCH / TABLE MOUNTAIN
Cape Town is the oldest city and the political capital of South Africa. A city of majestic splendor and stunning contrasts, cradled by the imposing Table Mountain. Upon arrival, proceed for a tour of this beautiful city. Then, proceed to the West Coast Ostrich Ranch. At the ranch, you will have the chance to learn about the development of ostrich breeding in South Africa. Don’t miss the photo opportunity to sit on one of the ostriches. Enjoy your ostrich lunch! After lunch, take a cable car ride up Table Mountain (weather permitting). On a clear day, the spectacular views from the summit (1086m above sea level) stretch across the mountainous spine of the Cape Peninsula and beyond Table Bay and Robben Island.
( lunch, dinner )
DAY 3: CAPE TOWN - STELLENBOSCH WINELANDS / CHEETAH RANCH - V&A WATERFRONT
Synonymous with high quality table wines, the Stellenbosch Wine Route was the first to be established in South Africa. Stellenbosch is the second oldest town in the country, and one of South Africa’s most attractive and best preserved. At the Cheetah Ranch, you will have a chance to view cheetahs up close. You may even be lucky enough to cuddle a cheetah cub! Thereafter, enjoy lunch and wine tasting at a winery. Then, proceed back to Cape Town and spend the rest of the day at Victoria & Alfred Waterfront, one of Cape Town’s biggest tourist attractions
( breakfast, lunch, dinner )
DAY 4: CAPE PENINSULA / SEAL ISLAND CRUISE / PENGUIN COLONY
After breakfast, depart on a full day tour of the Cape Peninsula. Travel via Sea Point, a popular seaside resort and the most densely populated residential area in the peninsula, stopping at Camps Bay to view the Twelve Apostles. At Hout Bay, take a boat trip (weather permitting) out to Duiker Island (Seal Island) and witness the thousands of Cape fur seals, cormorants and seagulls that congregate on the island (especially in summer). Drive through the Cape of Good Hope Nature Reserve and on to Cape Point, which lies virtually at the tip of Africa (only Cape Agulhas lies farther to the South). Enjoy a sumptuous lobster lunch! After lunch, proceed to witness the large colony of penguins at boulder’s beach.
( breakfast, lunch )
DAY 5: JOHANNESBURG - GOLD REEF CITY - SUN CITY RESORT
Today, depart Cape Town by domestic flight to Johannesburg. Johannesburg is the most important commercial and financial city in South Africa. Upon arrival in Johannesburg, transfer to Gold Reef City. Founded in 1886, the highlights of our visit include a trip down the gold mine, 222 metres deep, pouring of a gold bar and African Tribal Dancing. After which, proceed to the world famous holiday resort in South Africa - Sun City and Lost City.
( breakfast, lunch )
DAY 6: SUN CITY / LOST CITY / EXTRAVAGANZA SHOW
After breakfast, spend the day at leisure at Sun City. With its palm trees and a man-made sea complete with waves and beaches, the resort springs from the arid surroundings like a lush oasis. Spend the day at leisure exploring the two extraordinary resorts, each offering exciting entertainment for the whole family. Play a game of golf at the renowned Lost City Golf Course, the only one in the world with a water hazard inhabited by live crocodiles! Swim in the exciting water theme park, walk the Lost City Trail and more. In the evening, sit back and relax and enjoy a night of cabaret. Later, try your luck at the world-class casino.
( breakfast )
DAY 7: SUN CITY - GAME RESERVE / GAME DRIVE
After breakfast, head for the game reserve. Travel in open-top bush vehicles for the experience of a lifetime and look for the large variety of game including the “Big Five” (elephant, leopard, lion, rhino and buffalo), as well as cheetah, hippo, giraffe, antelope.
( breakfast, lunch, dinner )
DAY 8: GAME RESERVE - PRETORIA - JOHANNESBURG / FLEA MARKET / CARNIVORE RESTAURANT
Early morning, we depart on another game drive. Return for breakfast before heading for Pretoria, the capital of South Africa. Our Pretoria city tour includes the Union Buildings - official seat of the government, The Voortrekker Monument, Kruger House Museum, and also Church Square. Then proceed to Johannesburg for our visit to a flea market for a taste of some local shopping. Tonight, enjoy a specially prepared dinner of a variety of game meat.
( breakfast, lunch, dinner )
DAY 9: JOHANNESBURG - SINGAPORE
Today, bid farewell to South Africa as we transfer to the airport for our flight back to Singapore.( breakfast )
DAY 10: ARRIVE SINGAPORE
Arrive Singapore with sweet memories of a wonderful holiday with DYNASTY TRAVEL.
my upcoming trip to South Africa on 14th December... i cant waittttttt.. ! haha
hmm... seems fun? but i tell u.. it is soooo ex.. we are spending a total of about $8000-$9000 for 2pax for this entire trip.. which only lasts for 10 days.. heartache.. for the hard earned money... but i am very sure it is gonna be so fun, exciting and exotic! =) will update our pictures here later and share more on our romantic yet adventurous trip....
Itinerary
DAY 1: SINGAPORE - CAPE TOWN
Assemble at Singapore Changi International Airport for your flight to Cape Town via Johannesburg.
( meals on board )
DAY 2: CAPE TOWN CITY TOUR / OSTRICH RANCH / TABLE MOUNTAIN
Cape Town is the oldest city and the political capital of South Africa. A city of majestic splendor and stunning contrasts, cradled by the imposing Table Mountain. Upon arrival, proceed for a tour of this beautiful city. Then, proceed to the West Coast Ostrich Ranch. At the ranch, you will have the chance to learn about the development of ostrich breeding in South Africa. Don’t miss the photo opportunity to sit on one of the ostriches. Enjoy your ostrich lunch! After lunch, take a cable car ride up Table Mountain (weather permitting). On a clear day, the spectacular views from the summit (1086m above sea level) stretch across the mountainous spine of the Cape Peninsula and beyond Table Bay and Robben Island.
( lunch, dinner )
DAY 3: CAPE TOWN - STELLENBOSCH WINELANDS / CHEETAH RANCH - V&A WATERFRONT
Synonymous with high quality table wines, the Stellenbosch Wine Route was the first to be established in South Africa. Stellenbosch is the second oldest town in the country, and one of South Africa’s most attractive and best preserved. At the Cheetah Ranch, you will have a chance to view cheetahs up close. You may even be lucky enough to cuddle a cheetah cub! Thereafter, enjoy lunch and wine tasting at a winery. Then, proceed back to Cape Town and spend the rest of the day at Victoria & Alfred Waterfront, one of Cape Town’s biggest tourist attractions
( breakfast, lunch, dinner )
DAY 4: CAPE PENINSULA / SEAL ISLAND CRUISE / PENGUIN COLONY
After breakfast, depart on a full day tour of the Cape Peninsula. Travel via Sea Point, a popular seaside resort and the most densely populated residential area in the peninsula, stopping at Camps Bay to view the Twelve Apostles. At Hout Bay, take a boat trip (weather permitting) out to Duiker Island (Seal Island) and witness the thousands of Cape fur seals, cormorants and seagulls that congregate on the island (especially in summer). Drive through the Cape of Good Hope Nature Reserve and on to Cape Point, which lies virtually at the tip of Africa (only Cape Agulhas lies farther to the South). Enjoy a sumptuous lobster lunch! After lunch, proceed to witness the large colony of penguins at boulder’s beach.
( breakfast, lunch )
DAY 5: JOHANNESBURG - GOLD REEF CITY - SUN CITY RESORT
Today, depart Cape Town by domestic flight to Johannesburg. Johannesburg is the most important commercial and financial city in South Africa. Upon arrival in Johannesburg, transfer to Gold Reef City. Founded in 1886, the highlights of our visit include a trip down the gold mine, 222 metres deep, pouring of a gold bar and African Tribal Dancing. After which, proceed to the world famous holiday resort in South Africa - Sun City and Lost City.
( breakfast, lunch )
DAY 6: SUN CITY / LOST CITY / EXTRAVAGANZA SHOW
After breakfast, spend the day at leisure at Sun City. With its palm trees and a man-made sea complete with waves and beaches, the resort springs from the arid surroundings like a lush oasis. Spend the day at leisure exploring the two extraordinary resorts, each offering exciting entertainment for the whole family. Play a game of golf at the renowned Lost City Golf Course, the only one in the world with a water hazard inhabited by live crocodiles! Swim in the exciting water theme park, walk the Lost City Trail and more. In the evening, sit back and relax and enjoy a night of cabaret. Later, try your luck at the world-class casino.
( breakfast )
DAY 7: SUN CITY - GAME RESERVE / GAME DRIVE
After breakfast, head for the game reserve. Travel in open-top bush vehicles for the experience of a lifetime and look for the large variety of game including the “Big Five” (elephant, leopard, lion, rhino and buffalo), as well as cheetah, hippo, giraffe, antelope.
( breakfast, lunch, dinner )
DAY 8: GAME RESERVE - PRETORIA - JOHANNESBURG / FLEA MARKET / CARNIVORE RESTAURANT
Early morning, we depart on another game drive. Return for breakfast before heading for Pretoria, the capital of South Africa. Our Pretoria city tour includes the Union Buildings - official seat of the government, The Voortrekker Monument, Kruger House Museum, and also Church Square. Then proceed to Johannesburg for our visit to a flea market for a taste of some local shopping. Tonight, enjoy a specially prepared dinner of a variety of game meat.
( breakfast, lunch, dinner )
DAY 9: JOHANNESBURG - SINGAPORE
Today, bid farewell to South Africa as we transfer to the airport for our flight back to Singapore.( breakfast )
DAY 10: ARRIVE SINGAPORE
Arrive Singapore with sweet memories of a wonderful holiday with DYNASTY TRAVEL.
my upcoming trip to South Africa on 14th December... i cant waittttttt.. ! haha
hmm... seems fun? but i tell u.. it is soooo ex.. we are spending a total of about $8000-$9000 for 2pax for this entire trip.. which only lasts for 10 days.. heartache.. for the hard earned money... but i am very sure it is gonna be so fun, exciting and exotic! =) will update our pictures here later and share more on our romantic yet adventurous trip....
Tuesday, September 19, 2006
STUDIO SHOOT...........
~*covergirl collection*~
~*beauty collection*~
~*geisha collection*~
~*mystery collection*~
~*fantasy collection*~
~*retrorock collection*~
This is a precious gift from my love.. Thank you darling for this beautiful gift.. =)
These pictures are some sneaks of my shoot.. MONALISA is the studio palace..
they requested me to be their Sample in their shop and in return I had some freebies... they made a TV Flash Advertisement of my pictures.. do let me know if you wanna have a look at the flash or the album.. =)
I wanna thank the photographer Sven, Make up artist Apple, the designer and of cos not forgetting dear Kelly! Thanks all for the beautiful piece of art!
I would really recommend people to go there to take personal folio or wedding folio.. it is quite pricey but their designs and artwork of the album are really exclusive... not able to find at those normal studios.. pay alittle more for higher quality.. worth it right?
~*covergirl collection*~
~*beauty collection*~
~*geisha collection*~
~*mystery collection*~
~*fantasy collection*~
~*retrorock collection*~
This is a precious gift from my love.. Thank you darling for this beautiful gift.. =)
These pictures are some sneaks of my shoot.. MONALISA is the studio palace..
they requested me to be their Sample in their shop and in return I had some freebies... they made a TV Flash Advertisement of my pictures.. do let me know if you wanna have a look at the flash or the album.. =)
I wanna thank the photographer Sven, Make up artist Apple, the designer and of cos not forgetting dear Kelly! Thanks all for the beautiful piece of art!
I would really recommend people to go there to take personal folio or wedding folio.. it is quite pricey but their designs and artwork of the album are really exclusive... not able to find at those normal studios.. pay alittle more for higher quality.. worth it right?
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